Sunday, December 29, 2013

Michael Bublé


Cause you're one of a kind. #Close Your Eyes



You're a falling star, you're the get away car. #Everything




you can find it yourself. #Hollywood



I'm not surprised, not everything lasts..
And I know some day that it'll all turn out 
#Haven't Met You Yet




"Right now, you are missing the vast majority of what is happening around you"

"How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives," wrote Annie Dillard once.

"Right now, you are missing the vast majority of what is happening around you. You are missing the events unfolding in your body, in the distance, and right in front of you." from On Looking, Eleven Walks with Experts Eyes.

Saturday, December 28, 2013

“What is any ocean, but a multitude of drops?”

“What is any ocean, but a multitude of drops?” 

Cloud Atlas - David Mitchell


Sunday, December 22, 2013

All I Really Need to Know I learned in Kindergarten - Robert Fulghum

All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten


Robert L. Fulghum. All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten. Ballantine Books, 2003 (1986, 1988) ISBN: 034546639-X, pp.1-3.

Taken from the excerpt at Amazon.com; book details are here.


Credo

Each spring, for many years, I have set myself the task of writing a personal statement of belief: a Credo. When I was younger, the statement ran for many pages, trying to cover every base, with no loose ends. It sounded like a Supreme Court brief, as if words could resolve all conflicts about the meaning of existence.

The Credo has grown shorter in recent years - sometimes cynical, sometimes comical, and sometimes bland - but I keep working at it. Recently I set out to get the statement of personal belief down to one page in simple terms, fully understanding the naïve idealism that implied.

The inspiration for brevity came to me at a gasoline station. I managed to fill my old car's tank with super deluxe high-octane go-juice. My old hoopy couldn't handle it and got the willies - kept sputtering out at intersections and belching going downhill. I understood. My mind and my spirit get like that from time to time. Too much high-content information, and I get the existential willies. I keep sputtering out at intersections where life choices must be made and I either know too much or not enough. The examined life is no picnic.

I realized then that I already know most of what's necessary to live a meaningful life - that it isn't all that complicated. I know it. And have known it for a long, long time. Living it - well that's another matter, yes? Here's my Credo:

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate-school mountain, but there in the sandpile at Sunday School. These are the things I learned:

Share everything.

Play fair.

Don't hit people.

Put things back where you found them.

Clean up your own mess.

Don't take things that aren't yours.

Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.

Wash your hands before you eat.

Flush.

Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.

Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.

Take a nap every afternoon.

When you go out into the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands, and stick together.

Wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: The roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.

Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.

And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or your government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk about three o'clock every afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are - when you go out into the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.



Copyright: Robert L. Fulghum

How to Master Your Creative Routine and the Pace of Productivity

I have a long list of “Secrets of Adulthood,” the lessons I’ve learned as I’ve grown up, such as: “It’s the task that’s never started that’s more tiresome,” “The days are long, but the years are short,” and “Always leave plenty of room in the suitcase.” One of my most helpful Secrets is, “What I do every day matters more than what I do once in a while.”  said by Gretchen Rubin — author of The Happiness Project: Or, Why I Spent a Year Trying to Sing in the Morning, Clean My Closets, Fight Right, Read Aristotle, and Generally Have More Fun

"How to Master Your Creative Routine and the Pace of Productivity" - Brain Picking.

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Sunday, November 17, 2013

On Writing


How to Be a Writer: Hemingway’s Advice to Aspiring Authors

by 
“As a writer you should not judge. You should understand.”
Ernest Hemingway has contributed a great deal to the collected advice of great writers, from his famous admonition against the dangers of ego to his short and stellar Nobel Prize acceptance speech. But some of his finest wisdom springs to life in this excerpt from his 1967 nonfiction piece By-Line, found in the altogether excellent Hemingway on Writing (public library) — a compilation of the celebrated author’s most insightful meditations on the craft, culled from his published works and his private letters. Writing as “Your Correspondent,” abbreviated to “Y.C.,” Hemingway addresses the archetypal aspiring author, nicknamed “Mice,” and offers this characteristically wise-in-a-no-bullshit-way advice on becoming a writer:
MICE: How can a writer train himself?
Y.C.: Watch what happens today. If we get into a fish see exactly what it is that everyone does. If you get a kick out of it while he is jumping remember back until you see exactly what the action was that gave you the emotion. Whether it was the rising of the line from the water and the way it tightened like a fiddle string until drops started from it, or the way he smashed and threw water when he jumped. Remember what the noises were and what was said. Find what gave you the emotion; what the action was that gave you the excitement. Then write it down making it clear so the reader will see it too and have the same feeling that you had. That’s a five finger exercise.
MICE: All right.
Y.C.: Then get in somebody else’s head for a change. If I bawl you out try to figure what I’m thinking about as well as how you feel about it. If Carlos curses Juan think what both their sides of it are. Don’t just think who is right. As a man things are as they should or shouldn’t be. As a man you know who is right and who is wrong. You have to make decisions and enforce them. As a writer you should not judge. You should understand.
MICE: All right.
Y.C.: Listen now. When people talk listen completely. Don’t be thinking what you’re going to say. Most people never listen. Nor do they observe. You should be able to go into a room and when you come out know everything that you saw there and not only that. If that room gave you any feeling you should know exactly what it was that gave you that feeling. Try that for practice. When you’re in town stand outside the theatre and see how the people differ in the way they get out of taxis or motor cars. There are a thousand ways to practice. And always think of other people.

Hemingway on Writing is a treasure trove of Papa’s wisdom from cover to cover. Complement it with more notable advice on writing, spanning from the practical to the philosophical, including Elmore Leonard’s 10 rules of writing,Walter Benjamin’s thirteen doctrines, H. P. Lovecraft’s advice to aspiring writers, F. Scott Fitzgerald’s letter to his daughter, Zadie Smith’s 10 rules of writing, David Ogilvy’s 10 no-bullshit tips, Henry Miller’s 11 commandments, Jack Kerouac’s 30 beliefs and techniques, John Steinbeck’s6 pointers, and Susan Sontag’s synthesized learnings.

Friday, November 8, 2013

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Redefining "share"

Stop seeking connections online.
Start seeking conversations offline.

This is why many today feel lonely even when they "share" so much.

Well said.

http://vimeo.com/70534716

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

"Make your soul grow"


"What I had to say to you, moreover, would not take long, to wit: Practice any art, music, singing, dancing, acting, drawing, painting, sculpting, poetry, fiction, essays, reportage, no matter how well or badly, not to get money and fame, but to experience becoming, to find out what's inside you, to make your soul grow."


- Letters of Note: quoted from Kurt Vonnegut's response letter to a group of high school students who wrote a letter to him in 2006.


Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Imagine

Imagine yourself as a living house. God comes in to rebuild that house. At first, perhaps, you can understand what He is doing. He is getting the drains right and stopping the leaks in the roof and so on... But presently He starts knocking the house about in a way that hurts abominably and does not seem to make sense. What on earth is He up to? The explanation is that He is building quite a different house from the one you thought of - throwing out a new wing here, putting on an extra floor there, running up towers, making courtyards. You thought you were going to be made into a decent little cottage: but He is building a palace. He intends to come and live in it Himself.

by C.S. Lewis 

Also in p 166 of All or Nothing by Mark Batterson

Motivations

"We become what we think about." "Are you going to sit back and wait?" Do what you like, seek what you love. Don't stop till you get there. Life shouldn't be a compromise. Priceless reminders about life I put on replay nonstop. 1. "When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" Eric Thomas 2. What if Money was no object? Alan Watts 3. Human Culture by Alan Watts 4. Change your Life

Friday, September 27, 2013

Those moments

1. Waking up walking in the early morning sunrise before anyone else is up to feel the fresh air difference. 2. The happy film that made me smile. 3. That couple's story that reminded me what true love is. 4. That moment when someone made me laugh out loud today. 5. That book that made me cry in happines to realize how much more life has to offer if we really tried. 6. That moment when you realize you made the best decision in your life.

Friday, May 3, 2013

Another day

I live this moment as the last. 

There is only us. 
There is only this. 
Forget regret. 
Or life is your's to miss. 
No other road. 
No other way. 

No day but today.

- Rent

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Unknown

"The most important part of the story is the piece of it you don't know."

Barbara Kingsolver
The Lacuna

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

The cost

" Fundamentally, a decision to do one thing implies a decision not to do something else."

Analysis for Public Decisions, E.S. Quade p 118

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

[Book] The Reluctant Fundamentalist


"Does it trouble you," he inquired, "to make your living by disrupting the lives of others?" "We just value," I replied. "We do not decide whether to buy or to sell, or indeed what happens to a company after we have valued it." He nodded; he lit a cigarette and took a sip from his glass of wine. Then he asked, "Have you heard of the janissaries?" "No," I said. "They were Christian boys," he explained, "captured by the Ottomans and trained to be soldiers in a Muslim army, at that time the greatest army in the world. They were ferocious and utterly loyal: they had fought to erase their own civilizations, so they had nothing else to turn to."

- The Reluctant Fundamentalist, Mohsin Hamid, p 151

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

V day is Victory to Love




V day is Victory to Love

It's that time of year again,
to feel a bit of cheesy,
to feel a bit lovely and red,
but full of smile. 

Appreciate it.

Thank them all 
who have taught you what
love can mean to you
because This is just one of 
the many days that we will
remember why the world never
gets tired of singing songs about 
that four letter word
Love.



Saturday, January 5, 2013

Mignonne, Allons voir si la rose

A Cassandre
Mignonne, allons voir si la rose
Qui ce matin avoit desclose
Sa robe de pourpre au Soleil,
A point perdu ceste vesprée
Les plis de sa robe pourprée,
Et son teint au vostre pareil.
Las ! voyez comme en peu d'espace,
Mignonne, elle a dessus la place
Las ! las ses beautez laissé cheoir !
Ô vrayment marastre Nature,
Puis qu'une telle fleur ne dure
Que du matin jusques au soir !
Donc, si vous me croyez, mignonne,
Tandis que vostre âge fleuronne
En sa plus verte nouveauté,
Cueillez, cueillez vostre jeunesse :
Comme à ceste fleur la vieillesse
Fera ternir vostre beauté.
The English translation isn't the same beauty as the French one, but one could still get some sense of what he meant when he said that famous "Mignonne, allons voir si la rose." The English translation is from (http://www.recmusic.org/lieder/get_text.html?TextId=13861)
Sweetheart, let us see if the rose
that only this morning unfolded
its scarlet dress in the sun
has lost, at vesper-time,
the folds of its scarlet dress
and its colour, so like yours.
Alas! See how rapidly,
Sweetheart, she has let
her beauty fall all over the place!
Nature is truly a cruel stepmother
when such a flower only lasts
from dawn to dusk!
So if you hear me, Sweetheart,
while your age flowers
in its greenest newness,
gather, gather your youth.
Age will tarnish your beauty
as it has faded this flower.